Arousal Spot in Male
I’ve heard guys have a G-spot, but I have no idea where it is or what I should do with it. Help!
The male G-spot is actually the prostate, “a walnut-shaped gland located about three inches inside the anal canal, which swells when he’s aroused and secretes part of the fluid that makes up semen,” explains Taylor. “When stimulated, the prostate can provide intense pleasure.”
One way to tantalize this internal hot spot is to stimulate his perineum, the nerve-centric area between his testicles and anus. “The prostate gland lies underneath the perineum, so applying pressure externally to this stretch of skin can in turn arouse his G-spot,” says Taylor. Use your thumb or knuckle to gently knead the area, especially while performing oral sex. As your guy starts to orgasm, press a little bit harder to really send him into orbit.
After years together, my boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere. Then two weeks later, he said that he realized I was the One and wanted to get back together. What happened during those two weeks to make him change his mind?
Sounds like your guy experienced something I like to call a mid-relationship crisis. This occasionally happens to guys in long-term situations – they wake up one morning feeling trapped. Then they begin wondering if the grass is perhaps greener on the single side. Foolishly, they suggest “taking a break” or explain that they “need their space.” Then a few short weeks later, they realize they made a terrible mistake and beg for forgiveness.
Likelihood is that he met someone else and dumped you to see what would happen with this other chick. In the time you were apart, he went on a few dates with her, only to discover she was actually a crazy bitch or a bore. Again, the grass wasn’t much greener.
In any case, it’s nice that he wants you back, but I wouldn’t let him off the hook so easily. Tell him you need some time to think things through, and break off contact for a few days or even weeks. Talk is cheap. He needs to show you how much he wants you back.
So after you’ve made him sit and suffer for a while, explain that he needs to prove his commitment to making the relationship work this time around. He should be willing to discuss the future with you as well as ways to make your bond even stronger than it was before. Think of it as a trial run: If he convinces you in those first few weeks that he’s ready to go the distance – and won’t panic and go running for the hills again – I think it’s safe to give this guy a second chance.