Archive for the ‘Sexual Problems’ Category

Arousal Spot in Male

Saturday, June 6th, 2009

I’ve heard guys have a G-spot, but I have no idea where it is or what I should do with it. Help!
The male G-spot is actually the prostate, “a walnut-shaped gland located about three inches inside the anal canal, which swells when he’s aroused and secretes part of the fluid that makes up semen,” explains Taylor. “When stimulated, the prostate can provide intense pleasure.”
One way to tantalize this internal hot spot is to stimulate his perineum, the nerve-centric area between his testicles and anus. “The prostate gland lies underneath the perineum, so applying pressure externally to this stretch of skin can in turn arouse his G-spot,” says Taylor. Use your thumb or knuckle to gently knead the area, especially while performing oral sex. As your guy starts to orgasm, press a little bit harder to really send him into orbit.

After years together, my boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere. Then two weeks later, he said that he realized I was the One and wanted to get back together. What happened during those two weeks to make him change his mind?
Sounds like your guy experienced something I like to call a mid-relationship crisis. This occasionally happens to guys in long-term situations – they wake up one morning feeling trapped. Then they begin wondering if the grass is perhaps greener on the single side. Foolishly, they suggest “taking a break” or explain that they “need their space.” Then a few short weeks later, they realize they made a terrible mistake and beg for forgiveness.
Likelihood is that he met someone else and dumped you to see what would happen with this other chick. In the time you were apart, he went on a few dates with her, only to discover she was actually a crazy bitch or a bore. Again, the grass wasn’t much greener.
In any case, it’s nice that he wants you back, but I wouldn’t let him off the hook so easily. Tell him you need some time to think things through, and break off contact for a few days or even weeks. Talk is cheap. He needs to show you how much he wants you back.
So after you’ve made him sit and suffer for a while, explain that he needs to prove his commitment to making the relationship work this time around. He should be willing to discuss the future with you as well as ways to make your bond even stronger than it was before. Think of it as a trial run: If he convinces you in those first few weeks that he’s ready to go the distance – and won’t panic and go running for the hills again – I think it’s safe to give this guy a second chance.

Guide To Missionary Sex

Saturday, June 6th, 2009

When going from missionary to woman-on-top, do most people maneuver the switch while keeping the guy’s penis inside? Whenever I try it, my guy pops out.
We’ve all marveled at Hollywood love scenes where the couple tumbles around the bed, swapping positions with choreographed precision. The reality is, sex isn’t always so seamless. People knock heads; get tangled up in die sheets, and yes, momentarily disengage. “It can be tricky to change poses in one smooth, fluid movement,” says Taylor. “Most couples stop and reconnect.”
However, to give the seamless switch-up a shot, start in missionary close to the edge of the left side of the bed. Keeping your right leg straight, wrap your left leg around your guy’s waist and hook your left arm under his shoulder. Pushing off with your right arm, keep a firm grip on your guy as you roll him onto his back toward the right side of the bed in one sweeping motion. If he slips out, stick him back in and resume your romp.

I worry about how I taste and smell when a new guy goes down on me. Is there anything I should do about it?
“Women often worry about how they taste and smell,” says Keesling. “Which is ironic, since many men are actually turned on by the natural aroma of their partners?”
However, even if your man thinks you smell as sweet as a rose garden, you won’t be able to enjoy his effort fully if you’re worried about offending him. But instead of reaching for a vaginal deodorant, which can irritate your vaginal tissue, your best bet is to wash your below-the-belt region with soap and water before sex. Why not take a shower or bath together as part of foreplay?
Even if you don’t suds up first, try to relax and focus on all the body-tingling sensations of your man’s mouth moves because if he voluntarily heads downtown and stays there, he’s most likely not offended by your scent. In fact, there’s a good chance he loves it.